Did I misinterpret this interaction with a guy?
I’m a freshman in high school when this happened and the guy was junior and in the same high school as me.
When we had a trip we went to an amusement park and this guy, a kinda friend, and I were off doing our own thing and was going down stairs I was on a step above him and he stopped on a step and kinda like grabbed my face and kissed me and to put it context I hate people touching me, and I hate touching people so this caught me off guard completely. And I was a little stunned and I just stood there
Then later that night almost the whole group was down at the pool and there was a hot tub as well. I went from the pool and hot tub and was sitting there when this guy gets in the tub with me. And I’m normally very very uncomfortable being around guys especially because I have some past stuff that has happened. So I was a little frozen because there’s the fight, flight and freeze. And I automatically freeze and I’m not able to talk and I can’t, and it escalated kinda without consent, but I could’ve gotten out of the tub if I didn’t want it right? Though I couldn’t really move because I was practically frozen.
In a whole I can’t stop thinking about this and I don’t really know what to do. He’s an attractive person and has a good reputation that I’m not going to say anything to any about this. I’ve only told one person and it’s an online friend from a whole different state sooooo ya ADVICE?