u/Abject_Guidance_9899

I’m trying to figure out what that huge opening is that looks like a O thats where my urethra is supposed to be I’m pretty sure. it’s been 6 years and I have pressure in my bladder during sex that i never used to have. Also decreased pleasure during sex. I haven’t been to the gyno since no insurance. I added an updated pic it looks different but still having these issues of bladder pressure, decreased sensation during sex and sometimes weak orgasms. I’m just convinced child birth completely fucked up my 🐱