u/Able-Act-9536

Married 3 years my Voluptuous Wife often likes to Be on top after she had a abusive Ex. On my S\O restraints are a limited to silk and blindfolds she's rather Vanilla which isn't a issue. Or I hold down her Wrists. she likes to be the Dom a fair amount 😉 f she lets go & NOT in her HEAD which I dislike I. She's told me to focus on me not her pleasure so much during S at times.

. She surprised me with this Cop costume she Found & I 'd Love to be the Dom more & excited to wear it. ASMR roleplay is New & I seriously want it go well. I want 🪛 Her & Give her the Fantasy she's wants till she Can't Stop smiling😁.I want to make the a great experience 4 us both what do I say to not make this awkward

I'm out of my element here.