Newly FtM husband obsessed with penises?
Me (cisF) & my husband (FtM/nonbinary) have been together for 6 years now, married for 2. In the last 6 months they have started T. The rise in sex drive I was expecting, but there has also been a slight obsession of theirs developing over penises. Post-op dicks, cis dicks, gay & hetero porn, etc. Even going as far as sounding attracted to them all of a sudden and wanting them.
I know I have insecurities to work on, but I can’t help but feel worried me being a cis female is not gonna be what they want anymore. Part of me also thinks this may be a “do I want them or want to be them” mentality that they’re figuring out?
Idk. Is this normal when starting T? I don’t ever want to invalidate their transition or be negative towards their exploration, so I just want to know if I’m overreacting I guess?