My Fiance just pmo!! 😤
So my fiance and I talked about him getting snipped cuz you know it would just be easier and I would like to get off birth control cuz it's messing with my body and our sex life.
So we had this conversation last month and then yesterday, I even told him that he's not being forced and its just a thought he can think on til he finalizes the decision. If he doesn't want it great, we'll just continue to have a sexless relationship (which I really don't mind since we connect on other levels) and if he gets it even better!
So today I brought him lunch right after my appointment and he tells me that he talked to his buddy (who is like his brother) about the conversation we had last night. He then tells me his buddy said we shouldn't have any surgeries and that I should actually get off birth control becuz it's harmful.
Let me add this, his friend is a single dad who barely even gets to see his son and the baby momma is pregnant with someone else, dont get me wrong I love his buddy he's been supportive of our relationship since day 1 but I'm super pissed off that my fiance would tell his buddy about OUR decision on kids. Like why tell someone or ask of an opinion on someone who's not doing too well themselves? if you ask a breeder on their opinion ofc they're gonna try to push you towards the road of parenthood.
I wish he wouldn't cower to his friend about these things but part of me thinks he's lowkey hoping his friend says it's a bad idea because he actually wants kids. All I know is that we're having a serious conversation about this when he gets home, I just didn't want to talk about it while he was at work.