Is this what it means to have chemistry with someone?
Not really nsfw but about sex***
For context I am a 19f and bi but have only recently started hooking up with girls this year when I started college. Recently I had been wondering if maybe I was a lesbian because in my past relationships with men sexy time always felt like a chore and smth I would do for him. But i also didn’t have enough experience with girls especially sober that I couldn’t say it was different with girls.
But the other night I ended up hooking up with some who I was always curious about and it was genuinely life changing. Like I don’t know if could be that good. I think it might be because none of my exes had matched my kink the way this guy did without me needing to say anything and he was incredibly good at reading was I liked without having to say it. We hooked up again last night and it was even better than the first time. And for whatever reason I feel really comfortable with him already when usually I need time to warm up to new guys. Like after we woke up we were cuddling and I was just joking around messing with his hair and I felt like I had known him forever. I have never craved hooking up with someone before (not even my ex of 2 years). Is this what it means to be compatible with someone??? I am beyond lost and this has just been absolutely blowing my mind.