Feedback on poly dating profile?
!>Hey, I'm not sure if this is allowed so please delete it if not.<! As an autistic person, I'm not always clear on how my language is landing, and could really use some feedback on my dating profile post. (Pictures will be later.)
36[TF4Fem/NB] Quiet-life nerdy domme looking for NP/Primary potential!
I'm a single, cuddle-slut programmer and fantasy author who enjoys a quiet life. Trans, child-free.
I also:
- Dance daily ("uhn-ts, uhn-ts, uhn-ts" in my headphones)
- Fill my sail with the winds of imagination (clackity clack goes the keyboard)
- Crave pinning you down to do your make up ("Pretend to be a good girl for me and stay still!")
- Will make conversational flow charts to understand communication (Yay 'tism!)
- Cat nap in the autumn sun
- Crave a hug every time I first see you
For me, a relationship is where we can both breathe, a sanctuary built through connection and care. The enduring trust needed for that is built by acceptance and repair.
Oh you got trauma? That's par for the course, firefly! Let's heal together.
A favorite love quote: "find someone who lets you become more yourself." I'm not looking for a mirror; I'm looking for you to be yourself, so I can trace the curves and edges of your heart and mind, and treasure the feel of their flow.
As for the domme bit, I have a few modes to enjoy: in "care mode", I nurture and hold; in "pursuit mode", I savor brat taming and primal chase. I like sensation-topping / intensity play: I feel energized by the trust, inducing overwhelm, and connecting aftercare. 24/7 curious but not needing. Seeking big brat energy.
My massage game is fire -- but don't take my word for it, the proof is in the rubbing.
On the flip side, I'd occasionally love it if you let out all that brat energy on me as a plaything. "Turn that stupid brain of yours off, we have no use for it here" type objectifying and degrading. It's a ✨ dynamic ✨ dynamic.
I'm experienced with polyamory and experience intense compersion. I also have a chronic health condition I manage; I'll need understanding around it, and am happy to give it in return.
Seeking:
- Someone also open to NP/Primary connections
- Big brat energy
- Child free
- Supportive of alone time / time apart
- Cool with no-op transbian with the 'tism
- Can be understanding around chronic health conditions I manage
- Gives (or is willing to learn) good head rubs! One of my fav form of physical bonding.
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Thoughts? Weakest bits?