a controversial confession, is this ok?
hi everyone, I just wanted to see if some of you guys also do this and what do you think about this in case you don't, I'm a short man and lately I've been thinking a lot about this height thing since I like a girl way taller than me, like around 10 or 15 cm, there is some height content here and there that shows up in my algorithms but I'm not stupid enough to go to that incel/blackpill/heightcel? route
the thing is that lately I've been doing something to calm and reassure me when the negativity about my height hits and is that I like to read experiences from trans men pre or post transition and the their worries about height, I've been doing this for a couple of weeks now, I want to point out that I'm not LGBT-phobic in any way, but at the same time I wonder why do i like to read these things so much, is interesting to see all of these guys being happy with their transitions but also having to deal with what we have dealt all our lives or at least since we started to grow and we noticed that our height was going to be important for some people, most people, if i dare to make an assumption
I read things like trans men saying that they were thinking about not even transitioning out of how worried they were about the fact that they would have to live as short men! I mean isn't that insane to think about? also some of them say that they weren't really thinking about height when they were living as women but since the transition they started to become more and more aware of this
I don't want to think that I'm gloating with their suffering, is just that is crazy how sometimes we don't even consider the things other people go through UNTIL they happen to us, sometimes even diminishing them and saying that they are not a big deal, to see all these people who never had to worry about being short until they decide to live in a way in which it starts to be a hindrance and realizing that is so fascinating to me for some reason, to me it's even better than reading experiences here from men that are shorter than me, I even look up "tall woman/short man couple" content...
what do you guys think about this?
edit: I'm 1.65 cm or 5'5 as you Americans say, I'm Argentinian so it isn't difficult for me to be taller than a girl on average but still, as you might know sometimes is not enough