u/Academic-Activity-78

I might be in love with my best friend?

Hi guys im 16f and i've know for a long time now that im bi but never really been fully comfortable with it until recently.

Recently i've been humouring myself with the fact i may like my best friend romantically rather than just platonically, but not really thinking much about it as im generally horrible at distinguishing my feelings from romantic or platonic love if i like someone smh.

This may just be due to the fact she has recently gotten into a boy band i really like after me bugging her for soo long to get into it, and may just be me liking her more as a friend because of this.

But today was our leavers day and she is going to a different sixth form, and now that i had some time thinking about the fact i wont be spending everyday with her is honestly breaking my heart.

idk if this is just me just wanting to like a girl as ive never "officially" liked a girl (due the aforementioned confusion with my feeling towards someone) or do i actually like her romantically.

Im sorry if im just rambling rn but i dont have anyone else to talk to about this 💔, so i would really like any advice anyone has, or if they have had a similar experiance

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