r/BisexualTeens

I don't know what's happened this time... I have never felt this attracted to a boy before... Why are my antennas so active around this guy...why can't I stop imagining kissing him... Why is he not gay...

We are friends I think and I just roam around w him all day long... Expecting SMTH to happen but nothing will😭😭he's also teaching me a little coding but I can't focus when he speaks in that hot sexy voice...

I have been thru this so many times but why does this time feel so difficult...(I'm a gay college fresher indian)

I (almost 17M) have never been in a relationship, I've always been nervous about one because I don't feel attractive enough to love. When I was 11 I came out as bi but after about a year thought I was straight and it wasn't til May I (re) came out. I would say I'm bi with a female preference but I now am wanting to try dating but I feel like dating a boy right now. I personally just don't know how to find people at school and how to talk to someone. Also lots of dudes at my school are homophobic so its hard to find a guy. Any tips?

Okay so first of all, I have no idea if she's also into girls. She's cute, always smiles at me, and we share social media. We dont talk because we're not in the same grade (she's one grade below me​​​) but we'll say hello to each other from time to time. Not to sound cringe or anything, but I don't know if want I'm feeling is attraction. I think she's a really pretty girl, and I'd like to kiss her lil cheeks and hold her hand and wrap my arms around her.​​ But not like, be in a relationship. The feeling is more like I wanna take care of her, and that's it. What in the world does this mean? Help, sos, what should I do??????

Okay, I genuinely need some outside opinions because I can’t tell if I’m overthinking this or not.

So basically, this started as a stupid joke between me and this girl I’m really close with.

We started joking about being a couple, and somehow she took it SO far 😭. We went from calling each other “my love” and “darling” to literally pretending we’d been together for five years. We had fake arguments, fake jealousy, she’d say stuff like “where are you, dinner is ready”, and we’d basically act like an old married couple 💀.

It was obviously a joke, but somehow it became such a normal part of our friendship that I still call her “darling” sometimes.

The thing is, we’re also pretty physically affectionate with each other in real life. I’m normally not that tactile with people, but with her I’m much more comfortable with it. We’re just naturally very close and affectionate.

She also has I Kissed a Girl as one of her favourite songs and really likes Billie Eilish. I KNOW that doesn’t automatically mean anything 😭, I’m not using that as evidence or anything. It’s just one of the things that made my brain go “hmm???”

I’ve also tried asking her indirectly what she thinks about girls sometimes, but she always gives me really vague answers, so I have absolutely no idea.

She doesn’t know I’m bi. She’s actually one of the only people in my friend group who I know is accepting, so sometimes I wonder if I should tell her.

But then another part of me is like:

**“**Girl, you’re literally inventing a romance out of a friendship.” 💀

So yeah. I genuinely can’t tell anymore.

Would you interpret this as just a very affectionate friendship + an elaborate inside joke, or would you also wonder if there might be something more going on?
Please tell me if I’m being delusional 😭

I’m a m six teen. I don’t know what’s going on with me. I’ve always thought u was straight but recently I’ve found some guys cute and I also have been watching a little bit of gay porn or other guys having solo time. I don’t know if this is just because guy and girl porn just seems so fake because I also do watch lesbian. I’m so confused and don’t know what’s going on. What should I do and what are your thoughts?

I hope this post doesn't get deleted again.

I(17f) I'm in a friend group of 5 other girls. We bace friends little over 2 years ago when we became roommates in freshman year. The school we go to is very openly queer and a safe space for anyone regardless of identity. Of course you are met with the occasional remarks but that's it.

I am not out to any of them or publicly anywhere. Only people in my home town know this information and a few of my cousins. When me and Jane(fake name) became friends there was one situation which I always go back to when I'm actually thinking of comming out. We were sitting on my dorm bed and she asked me "are you a lesbian?" Back then I was very masculine presenting so I get why she would get the idea. I said no and she replied with "thank god,finally someone normal at this school".

After 2 years she has moved on from this wierd ideology about queer people being "abnormal" but she still makes comments here and there. The pot brew over about 4 months ago when she broke up with her boyfriend. It was a bad break up and with everything else going on in her life it didn't help. We were talking one night and she mentioned she might be bi. I said wow ok brave we support you no matter what and all that jazz. Then I asked how she knew,her answer was "I dont I just want to try women now". In my opinion still a valid response until the words "i dont like women i just think having a thing with a lesbo night be fun"(she used a very slur like word in our language but it doesnt have an English equivalent). At this is kind of blew up on her but remembered not to expose myself and played the card of having queer people close to me so thats why it upset me. She understood and we moved on. The comments continued.

This summer we all had a week long trip together. Being European and teens alcohol was involved and we talked about all sorts of things including the lgbtq+. Darcy(fake name) is a complete ally despite being incredibly religious,she apparently even wore a pride flag to church on multiple occasions. Lena(fake name) is the stereotypical "ally" who won't speak ill of the community but isnt very supportive. "I'm ok with it as long its not showed down my throat" type of person. When we get to severally intoxicated Jane things change. She said that she like women sexually and men romantically and how she would sleep with all of us. There was some pushing from her side about some things I won't get into but she insisted about this being her identity.

I'm aware of this existing and I apologize if I come off as unsupportive I really am for her discovering herself we are young after all but it just seems wierd to me. Not the identity itself but the circumstances of it all. She was drunk,like barely talking drunk and that combined with the past comments I really dont know what to think. Watching this unfold as I have been scare to look different in their eyes for 2 years is really not helping my mental state.

Has anyone been through someting similar?

I feel like im not myself around them as I think sexuality is a big part of your identity as a human. It's just upsetting not knowing if you can truly be yourself with the people you consider your closest friends.

Would it even be worth comming out? How do I handle the situation with Jane?

Thank you for reading sorry for the mistakes English is not my first language.

I Just accepted that I am bi I've known since I was eleven but because of oppressive and religious family I didn't know how to except myself until my parents kicked me out I moved in with my brother whose bi and he helped me accept myself in 17

For me personally as someone that’s genderfluid, depending on my hair. It will tell you how I’m feeling/my pronouns then. For example, i have like long (ish) hair (goes down to about my shoulders). So when my hair is tied up at the back normally, i feel more masculine yk. But when it’s tied in more of a bun. It’s really just anything else, feminine or non-binary! I haven’t seen anyone do this before, so maybe just me? But it’s something unique me.

What’s yall unique stuff???

Basically I got this dude in my friend group and like the past few months we’ve been hanging out way more than we used to he’d gay and like has come out and shit but a bunch this summer me and my friends just go to whoever’s got an empty house and smoke a bunch of weed and just chill and go out and usually it ends with me and him sleeping in the same bed and snuggling and last time we were both in our underwear cuddling and he was kissing my neck and shit and omfg I’ve never been harder in my life I’ve never really felt like this about a boy before but obviously I’m so open to it but I lowk can’t stop thinking about him 😭

I’ve been confused about my gender lately and for the time being I’m just saying that I’m nonbinary, cause I really don’t know enough about gender labels right now to figure myself out. The thing is no one in real life knows how I feel, so I can’t really just change the way I look entirely. I would include a picture but i value anonymity so just like broad tips are fine

I MADE OUT FOR THE FIRST TIMEEEE!!!

So it all started when my mom told me she was going out for the weekend for work and I would have the house all to myself for the whole weekend.

So then I realised I could actually invite pretty much the only gay boy in my area over and we could prettt much do whatever we wanted in a house by ourselves. I thought I would just shoot my shot and see what happens because it’s not every day you get a whole house to yourself while still in highschool. AND HE SAID YESSS!! Although he could only stay for the day on not sleep with me but it’s better than nothing.

I was actually so excited for this the whole week leading up to this meet-up I lost sleep over it and when the morning arrived I couldn’t actually believe this was happening. I’ve been fantasising about stuff like this for years now and I couldn’t believe it was about to come true.

So when he arrived it was a bit awkward because we hadn’t actually met in person before as we go to different schools which aren’t exactly close. Both of us were really nervous but we both knew what we wanted to do tho (make our and stuff) this was a first time for both of us. Eventually we sat down to watch movies as we had planned before hand. My heart was racing sitting next to him it, I was so scared to make the first move. So we watched the movie for about 5 minutes then eventually, I can’t remember who exactly made the first move but we started making out and then paused the movie and never unpaused it again lmao.

I head beforehand that when you kiss someone it feels like the world fades away around you and it feels exhilarating. I was a bit sceptical of those claims until I actually did it myself. It was the best feeling in the world. I always felt like movies over exaggerated kissing scenes but now I think they do them justice.

So anyways we made out a lot and then did some other stuff but I’ll spare the details. Eventually after a few hours we did sit down to watch a different movie from start to finish although I missed most of it because I was too busy with him lol.

Be eventually had to leave in the afternoon which sucked :( but that day was so much fun I’m not complaining. I really hope we get to do something like this again!

This has been blowing up on tiktok recently and I'm absolutely baffled by it. I'm sure you've heard 'daylight' by David kushner. Came out a few years ago, fairly decent. It was pretty much considered a song about a gay person fighting their religion. Then a week ago big Dave comes online and says it's ACTUALLY a Christian song and that he played us all for fools. It's not like it's been misinterpreted or anything the song is relatively old and all of a sudden he's switching up