u/AcanthaceaeThat2335

Had to personally experience this one and let me tell you it was not a fun time. I 24(F) and partner 26(M) were in a shared living arrangement with our friends who are also a couple. I had dealt with my own health issues earlier in the year and then a couple months later they announce their pregnancy to us at 12 weeks. I tried to be nice in the moment but honestly it just felt like the rug was being pulled out from underneath me and now my partner and I are back living with my parents. So my honest hot take is if you cannot support yourself living on your own financially then you should not be considering bringing another life into the world unfair on the child and unfair to anyone else you will hurt along the way.