u/Acceptable-Tiger-215

He’s very nice to me, for example insisting to pay for everything, providing emotional support, doing things he doesn’t like to do, but do it with me anyways, and helping me study for stuff that he already did and don’t need to study, etc. And when we hangout, he’s almost never scrolling or texting others, and I can use his phone since I know his password.

But, he also pushes me away. He says if he finds a gf, he will leave me but introduce his gf to me (the same if I find a bf). And he also jokes that he is gay (obviously not he has an ex girlfriend, and he doesn’t look like gay at all, and he also asks me for female friends…). He also calls me bro, and texts like a bro too.

It’s very conflicting. I just want to know how he feels about me. Is he avoidant? (I am an avoidant myself too, but I can’t imagine spending so much time and money on someone I don’t like, but I can imagine pushing someone away like this because I did the same tbf, I said he was a good bro a good friend etc.)

Hi! I’m currently a student, and I want to start a kpop covering group. However, this one will be different in some ways:

1. Set members:

I’m aiming for 5 (including myself) to dance together long term, this way, we can build more trust and familiarity so we can seem more cohesive! (And we don’t have to find members all over again for each new cover!)

2. Not just dancing:

I’m hoping that we can cover the songs fully-such as singing/rapping as well. This will be more challenging, so I hope to find people who want to try this with me!

3. Potentially go original:

My dream is to be an artist, but I’m too old now :(

However, with this group, I’m hoping we can potentially start releasing original songs once we get enough following and basically mimic the industry in this way.

I know it’s finals season, but this is just an idea, and I’d love to find like minded people who would want to work on this project with me! Good luck on your finals, and I look forward to finding like minded members :))