Should I stay or should I go
Hey so me (f21) and my boyfriend (m21) have ben together for 3,5 years. But the last year have been hard. I love him and he is my best friend but I feel like something is missing. I know that it’s totally normal for the spark to fizzle out but I feel like what is happing is more than that. I have noticed that I have started to develop random feeling for guys that I meet (nothing I have acted on of course) I know that, that to can be normal but it has happen 3 times in the last year alone. My boyfriend is my first ever relationship and I am scared that I will wake up one day when I get older and be sad that I did not experience life, but I don’t even know what it is that I want to experience. We moved in together 2 months ago and maybe that has put a lot of pressure on the relationship however I feel like the pressure was there even before.
He really is a good guy and my best friend but I feel like my feelings for him has kind of disappeared. And I don’t know if that is normal. He has done nothing wrong, but in the last month I have been thinking about the situation and if is even the right thing for me to be in a relationship in this part of my life every day.