u/AcceptableMud8351

Hope - HRT metabolism timing+ Stress Reduction

I wanted to add a little hope to the thread for anyone who has seen all the posts where people say HRT helped them within a day or a week etc and then have not had that experience themselves.

I started HRT in December of last year and I think it took my body a lot longer to adjust because just in the last month or so my crippling anxiety and brain fog has finally started to come down. These were the symptoms that worried me the most and they did not go away quickly. I generally have a slow metabolism so perhaps the HRT adjustment was slow too. But overall I had this thing where I would get these horrible brain surges or like adrenaline surges out of nowhere that were terrifying and my mind would go haywire and I would feel like I could barely construct a sentence. This would be especially bad if I was stressed out in any even minor way (driving on highways became impossible). And this is thankfully finally mostly gone!

Also I want to note that I think stress levels majorly play into Peri symptoms. My parents end of life with dementia came at the same time as my start with Peri and the stress was so so high for years. Recently through therapy and grief groups I’ve started to reduce my grief and stress and I think that in combo with the HRT is a big reason some of my worst symptoms seem better.

Just wanted to add all this as a little beacon of hope for anyone on HRT that doesn’t feel much of a change yet. I think for some of us it just takes longer.

Keep on trucking! Solidarity! This time of life is HARD!!

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u/AcceptableMud8351 — 17 hours ago

I haven’t felt the spark of being an attractive person in about 3 or 4 years. I’m 44. I don’t actually look all that different than I did at 38/39 aside from more belly fat… so I think it must be hormones.

I just feel like I’m unattractive all the time BUT not in a low self esteem way, more in a way where my sense of inner beauty faded.. the little glimmer of being attractive and alluring. When I used to interact with people I would feel a little spark or sparkle within of my own self looking attractive in the moment, like from within myself? Maybe I’m not explaining very well. But whatever that was… it is completely gone now!! And I hate it. I want that spark back, especially because I don’t even look bad and if I can’t find my sexy sparkle again right now, I’m genuinely afraid of how I am going to feel as I continue to age and change physically.

Anyone figure out how to get the sense of inner beauty and baseline sexiness back?? Help!!

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u/AcceptableMud8351 — 17 days ago

This is a weird one, and maybe this is just me, but I feel like I have a really hard time typing and texting without constant typos now and I think it might be peri related. Basically whenever I type now (which is all the time) I mis hit keys and misspell things constantly and have to go back through and fix tons of words. It’s not that I don’t know how to spell anymore, it’s that somehow my fine motor skills are off in this new way where I’m always mistyping. It’s really annoying and never was an issue in my life until recently,

Is this just me, or is this a peculiar peri symptom?!

Or maybe it’s just an aging thing…. Idk. But I’m only 44! Seems I should still be a swift clean typer at this age.

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u/AcceptableMud8351 — 24 days ago