Should I F17 tell my boyfriend M18 this happened?
should I tell my bf what happened when I was intoxicated? (we’re all 17-18)
So I haven’t been dating my boyfriend for long (like a few months) but I truly love him and he’s like the first person i’ve ever loved.
Recently my friend and got intoxicated and called over one of our close guy friends just to get some food but he decided to stay to make sure we were okay.
My friend passed out and me and my guy friend were just talking, I dont really remember what happened but long story short we were pretty cuddled up, I wasn’t really really intoxicated but I wasn’t sober and it was also really late at night like 3am, he was sober but he has liked me for a while which I was unaware of.
I dont know if I should tell my boyfriend or not because I love him so much and don’t want to lose him. He’s kind of had a past where he said his ex didn’t cheat on him but did betrayed him, he hasn’t told me much about it.
My friends say I shouldn’t tell him since I wasn’t in the right mind and I would never in a million years do anything like that sober and Ill never repeat anything like that ever again. But Im really conflicted because I do feel guilty but idk if it’ll just cause unnecessary pain.
I feel I should add I feel horrible about what happened and I would genuinely never do anything like that ever, this is so out of character for me and I feel terrible.