u/Acceptable_Pea8825

the morning after a MA success

good morning guys! i posted on here a few days ago about my concerns with having an abortion. i just wanted to say oh my god do i feel relief. yesterday i took the second set of pills around 3pm i put them under my tongue waited the 30 minutes (lowkey had no taste i expected much much worse) and as soon as i swallowed those pills i started bleeding. i started out just sitting on the toilet but i threw up probably 15 minutes after swallowing the pills which concerned me but my pill instructions said that as long as i has them in my mouth for the 30 minutes id be fine and that id absorbed enough. this was when i passed my first piece of “tissue??” it seemed fleshy and jelly like so i assumed that was the sack? i was surprised it came out that early. after that i laid in the shower for about 2 hours with the water just pouring over me and that was probably the most relief i had during the process (until the hot water ran out lol) from then on i just sat with 2 heating pads one on the back and one on the front. i went to the bathroom and when i sat down i heard a plop and it was a golf ballish size clot. i decided to go with disposable period underwear rather than pads because ive always been a diva cup user and the idea of pads kinda grosses me out the underwear held up great!! my cramps were probably a 7/10-8/10 pain for the first few hours all i wanted to do was crawl into a ball and cry but around 9 o’clock everything started to feel slightly better. i had taken a nice lil gummy to put me to bed and i woke up at 3 am to no pain AT ALL which was like so so surprising to me. as of rn im experiencing regularish period like bleeding with some smaller clots. i’m wondering were those the only larger things im gonna pass since i was so early along? over all this experience has been kind of a pain but im grateful to have the resources and support i do. this experience was not as bad as i thought it was gonna be at all and now that it’s basically over im feeling so much better.

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u/Acceptable_Pea8825 — 5 days ago

medical abortion prep

hi i ordered the pills online and im planning on taking them thursday whenever they arrive but i was wondering if anyone had any tips/must haves for when i go through the process? i want to be as prepared as possible

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u/Acceptable_Pea8825 — 10 days ago

i don’t know what to do. is lying to my boyfriend wrong?

this is on a throwaway account for obvious reasons. i’m 18 years old and i found out im pregnant 4 days ago. im roughly 5-6 weeks and i have the abortion pills otw in the mail through one of those services. my biggest issue is that my bf wants to keep the baby. part of me wants to keep it too but i know im not ready. i’ve only been with him for 6 months and i do truly love him and want him to be the father of my kids just not right now. is it wrong to lie to him and say i miscarried? what would be a good excuse for that? i dont want to break his heart which i know it would and i know that would make him not want to be with me anymore. this is absolutely breaking my heart and i break down everytime i remember im pregnant. i’ve stopped vaping since i found out but i physically cant stop smoking weed. i feel like an awful person already and i know that im going to live with regret for the rest of my life. i feel like im in the worst lose lose situation of my life. any tips or advice would be appreciated.

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u/Acceptable_Pea8825 — 13 days ago