Dating someone 18years elder to me. He's separated with 2 kids.
No he is not my sugar daddy, doesn't pay for anything I do/own. I recently flew to another country to meet him. It felt good, but he is too low effort. Very thoughtful, very sweet, kind and literally takes cares of the logistical things. He forgot my birthday, didn't do anything on our anniversary even when I felt t another country to meet him. I am a student, not much money, but I saved with my little part time and flew down to meet him cause he doesn't have Visa for the country where I live. I am just sad, and feels like whatever I have with him, he has had with too many people before and that somehow makes him feel that none of this is new. On the contrary, it was my first time that I spent few days with someone in an entirely new city just chilling. I am confused and sad. It isn't his fault that he is in a way immune to these little things like birthdays and stuff, but I wish I was his first in something. I am having a difficult time just understanding how to handle my own feelings.