u/Accomplished-Bar-770

Showing hole on main is hard, let’s make it easier.

1. I don’t cam in the bed I sleep in, I don’t respond to the messages in my own bed either. I bought a cheap blow up chair and chaise, that is covered in really nice fabric to give it a bit more sex appeal. I cammed for a week in my own bed and almost lost my mind. Do not recommend. I used to film on the floor when my furniture was taking a while to come. ANYTHING BUT THE BED I SLEEP IN.
2. I don’t tell anyone that I cam, ever. I’ve told one ex and one “bestie”. Both of them got super weird about the money despite having very good jobs and both of them wanted to join me on camera, my bestie more than my ex. And I don’t talk to either of them now.
3. I moved to a big city. Although it’s not viable for everyone, it gives you a chance to be lost in the crowd. Nobody is prying and nobody cares either. It’s good to not feel observed. I lived in a small town when I danced and prolonged eye contact with strangers had me anxious like “has this man seen my tits?”. Now, I don’t care.

All and all, your life doesn’t have to change but you need to make yourself comfortable.

1. The adult man pretending to be a virgin. They are never young. They are always older than me and I could careless and I find it hard to contain my laughter. One of them sent me a picture with a wedding ring on. Like buddy, not rn.

2. Any form of r-play.

3. GIANTESS kink. That one euphoria episode has actually ruined my week. All of them are super annoying and weird. I don’t say that often about customers, but they are a rude and weird bunch. They genuinely need to return to where they were before last week.

4. Age-play. Need I explain?

5. Balloons or anything to do with popping. Gets old quick.

6. The bullhorn guys, or horns in general. I have an apartment. I can’t be playing a trumpet in the middle of the evening.

Not to fear monger, I’ve been a dancer and did other forms of sw over a few years. I’m starting to have a very interesting evenings, I returned to cramming after my little vacation. Here is what I saw.

1. Customers are asking for my address and arguing with me when I tell them no????? Tf. I’m used to the questions but never the resistance when I say no.

2. The customers want to “know me on a deeper level “ . Not your fucking wife buddy. They have all become super emotionally needy in the past days, and dare I say trying to be romantic. Like, I’m not going to fall in love with you and show you them for free.

And this is how I know money is getting a bit tight, they are asking for and sending their phone numbers. 😩😩😩

My earnings have not dipped yet, but I smell economic distress. This is exactly what happened a few years ago in the club, one day, the guys started trying to stretch their dollars.

I’ve cammed solely for a bit over two years now, and I keep running into a very unique customer type. It’s ALWAYS A WHITE GUY, that wants to be referred to as BLACK. And they come in a mix batch, some of them never show their face but have some elaborate fantasy and always overstates their blackness, while others are bolder, showing themselves (an obviously white man) and stating that I should treat them as a black man. 🫩🫩🫩 I’m biracial, I might not be the one to talk, but, how exactly should I treat them? I don’t treat any of my customers differently. Do they think I’m talking to the black guys differently? I’ve stated over and over that I don’t do rp and they swear up and down that it isn’t, “they just want to be treated like a blk man”. Is there a name for this fetish?