r/CamGirlProblems

I decided to stream early on Sunday its 3pm and like zero tippers and viewers across platforms. I see its busier and more money at night. Wondering if i should log off and get on during the night time and enjoy my day 😔

I am the only one, as soon as a contest starts i need to check if i am still online as NOBODY join for hours ? I mean, i maybe disappear for them at all ? I check on site and i show up online, 4hours today 0$ is this normal as i am pretty new on SM (4months) . Do you have any recommendations? Suggestions? What to do ? 😭

I’m looking for some perspective from other creators because this situation left me feeling a bit confused.
I had a fan who originally found me on Chaturbate and eventually became one of my higher spenders on OnlyFans. He regularly purchased content, paid for a girlfriend-style experience through OF messaging, and we built what I felt was a good creator/fan relationship.
Then one day he deleted his OnlyFans account without saying anything.

Instead, he started messaging me on Instagram. I don’t use Instagram to chat with fans because it’s not a secure place for me to send photos or videos, it’s not where I conduct my business, and I reserve messaging for people who support me through my paid platforms.

When I wasn’t replying very often on Instagram, he became increasingly passive-aggressive and frustrated. He told me he wanted to keep talking and continue supporting me.
I explained that Instagram isn’t a platform I use for fan conversations, but I did offer him another option. I have a premium lifetime Telegram access for people who specifically want to communicate with me off-platform.

That’s where things became confusing.
As soon as I mentioned that the Telegram access was a paid service, he became upset.
He kept saying that he wanted to continue building our connection and continue supporting me, but he wasn’t interested in paying for the communication option I offered.
From my perspective, it felt contradictory… he said he wanted the connection, but wasn’t willing to use either of the paid avenues I make available for that connection.
I’m genuinely curious how other creators would interpret this.
Do you see this as someone who simply wanted free access after leaving OF? Is offering a paid Telegram option a reasonable boundary? Or would you have handled this differently?
I’m always trying to balance being kind and appreciative of my supporters while also protecting my time, privacy, and keeping clear boundaries between my business and personal social media.

I’ve had a few instances now of guys who will come and drop 1000 or more tokens and then cb will say it’s fraud tips and say “we have decided not to ban your account this time “
They told me I should report large tippers so they can investigate and see if it’s fraud or not
But how are we supposed to know if it’s fraud or if it’s someone who’s rich and wants to tip that
Much ? Last night a guy tipped 1000 for topless. I panicked and just logged off cos I didn’t wanna do it if cb are gonna deduct the tokens from my account in case it’s fraud tips.

It’s so awkward like… this guy tipped for a rate and literally sends me a a 2inch dick on a fat old man. Normally I NEVER say anything below 5, but in this situation, it was probably so obvious I was lying

Part of me wanted to be like “So, you want the real answer or the fake answer?” But it felt rude.

I don’t know how else to explain this, but every platform feels like it has its own little member culture.

On Chaturbate I get more of the direct-but-vague guys. Like they’ll tip well, they’ll know they want something, but they also want me to read their mind through one sentence like “you know what to do baby.” Sir, I do not. I am performing, flirting, watching the room, checking goals, reading chat, and apparently solving your horny escape room at the same time. They can be generous, but the active reading takes so much brain power.

Stripchat feels faster and more chaotic to me. More “do this now / no not like that / wait turn this way” energy. Sometimes fun, sometimes like being remote-controlled by five impatient men with bad WiFi.

Private-based sites like SM feel more like patience games. More slow build, more talking, more “let me feel like this is personal” energy. Not always easier, just a different kind of draining.

Then on Bonga I’ve noticed a funny opposite thing. A lot of guys there actually explain what they want in detail, almost like they’re sending a project brief to a contractor. “First this, then after two minutes this, please say this”. Honestly sometimes I prefer that because at least I’m not guessing the whole time. But a few are clearly using translators, so then it becomes this little puzzle where I’m trying to understand the exact tone they meant. Like okay, are you asking for a pose, a roleplay line, or did Google Translate just invent a new kink?

Do you ever notice different “types” of members depending on the platform too? Any archetypes or stories that deserve a name? I feel like we need a field guide at this point.

Heyy, do you think is a good idea? I’m about to do it in three days hahaha. I have at least 1,500 usd of revenue minimum per month… so what do you guys thing about it?

Evenings after a stream can feel so weird — the adrenaline is still there but the screen is off. I've been trying to build a proper wind-down routine but honestly I just end up scrolling for an hour 😅

Do you have any rituals that actually help you decompress and switch off "work mode"? Skincare, music, a walk, journaling? Genuinely curious what works for others here.

I just started out and did a total of 10 hours in three sessions. I started on Chaturbate and Stripchat.

I'm male, i got e decent body - but i'm not ripped. Im 26. I'm located in Europe.
I need to say that i don't show all of my face. Others looking about the same and also not showing face have full chatrooms. I think I'm comparable. But it's obvious that ripped studs got their rooms the fullest (I mean men are very visual creatures).

I have barely got people in my room. Most of the are just other streamers, mostly women.
On both sites I got 20 tokens. Maybe I'm expecting too much? I only got like 10 guys, who have a record of tipping a lot, in the full 10 hours.

I know there is much more than looks. I worked as escort before. But online, I'm not sure what people are expecting. And I'm not sure what I'm supposed to deliver.

There's a bunch of scammers and guys lurking here to target beginner girls. That’s how I got scammed for the first time.

don't mention you're new they’ll definitely try to take advantage of you. They also ask for a long private session and send fake receipts. One guy to watch out for is “reinier” he targets beginner cam girls. learned my lesson

Hi everyone, I recently came back from a long hiatus, and I went from using camming platforms to get in-person clients to working exclusively virtually now, so my camming skills are pretty rusty.

But what's happening is that despite doing "everything I'm supposed to do," I can't seem to get more than 15 viewers on CB. The other day it was just 4 anonymous users and one non-tipper, and it felt like forever! I still have the "new" tag on CB, so some viewers do come through that tag or via hashtags. I wanted to know if you have any tips, or if this is something happening in general right now?

I even thought that maybe the World Cup and sports betting could be affecting the cash flow on cam sites.

I look forward to your comments!

hi everyone!
i think i need some help from the girls who is doing well on SC. my score is around 260 rn and i have 7-15 ppl in my room in general. how can i rise my room upper in listing? if i do more hours with no profit the score will go down. do u have some advice about this based on your own experience? does posting content on feed help u? or do i need new account?

i work on f-machine now, full nude show. don’t have any pvt rating because my income is fully from free chat, and it’s not much bc i don’t have any regulars there or a lot of new traffic. thank u in advance ❤️

I live in Thailand, so I can’t order directly from Lovense. I might be able to get one from a Chinese website, but I’m not sure if it would still connect to Stripchat.

Sextpanther help!!! I’m so stressed. I used a word innocently that got flagged. I was talking about anxiety and used the word exposure therapy telling him that I’m doing exposure therapy having a normal conversation. I got flagged for that word. I quickly emailed support and they thanked me for reaching out. I haven’t worked since that day because my anxiety is through the roof. I use this site to feed my family. I don’t engage in anything taboo and got in trouble. I’m so afraid I will get an email saying I’m fired. I heard if they fire you, you don’t get any money that you made for that pay period. I’ve been crying for 3 days. Help.

Ran out my “new girl” boost on Stripchat, now it’s dead — need advice on driving traffic

So my new-model status on Stripchat expired and now I’m getting like 0-1 viewers a session, some days nothing at all. Opened a Chaturbate account too but the payout per viewer is so low it barely feels worth it.

I’m not able to stream all the time (not a full-time schedule), so I need to be efficient about however many hours I do put in. Feeling pretty lost in the algorithm right now.

Questions for people who’ve been through this:

•	How do you actually build a following when you’re not streaming 24/7?

•	Any tricks for getting the algorithm to push you to more viewers?

•	Is OnlyFans worth adding into the mix, or does splitting focus across platforms hurt more than it helps?

•	What actually converts lurkers into paying/tipping viewers?

Would really appreciate advice from anyone who’s grown their numbers from basically zero. Feels too slow right now and I need this to actually be profitable.❣️💕❣️💕❣️

Hey camgirls! I'm not a camgirl so I hope it's still okay for me to post here - the Lovense subreddit just seems like M4F F4M posts etc. I read this sub here and there and I know yall definitely know your stuff about toys.

Had a small tear appear at the end of the tail for my Lovense Lush 1 and I'm pretty sad about it, especially since the Lovense Lush 1 was discontinued however long ago. I'm sure it's still safe to use a few more times, especially since I (mostly, not always) use it externally, but I also don't want to risk any moisture or bacteria harboring due to the tear, because I'm assuming movement + vibration is just going to help it tear open further. I'm not savvy enough with silicone to even want to try to repair it, and I know even if I was, it'd probably be even more unsafe if I did.

The thing is, I'm pretty attached at the hip to this specific vibrator, and I have weirdly tight anatomy (very narrow 'entrance' at my pelvic bone, and pretty tight muscles down there because I unfortunately grew up using a weird masturbation technique that I haven't really heard of anyone else doing), so I'm really unsure about picking up the Lush 3 or 4 since they're marginally bigger, even though they are clearly otherwise built much better at least for where the charging is. I know they're not THAT much bigger, but I already had to essentially "train" myself up all those years ago when I got the Lush 1 so it wouldn't feel painful going in or taking it out (and it still sometimes is without properly preparing), and even though I don't use it internally very often, it's still nice to be able to (':

So yeah, sorry for the long ass TMI ramble, but is there even anywhere that still sells the Lush 1, obviously unopened and unused? I'm just so sad that they discontinued it. Or would I really just be better off getting a newer gen Lush and getting used to the size difference if it's that noticeable? I'm genuinely not even sure what to do here lmao, I should have bought 2 of these back when I bought it.

So I quit my toxic restaurant job and I have an Of from when Covid happened originally. Maybe 11 subscribers there. I’ve got myself all verified for SM and CB but just curious as to any advice for newbies that will help me asap. Got bills to pay and probably should have thought about this beforehand but I’ve got rent paid for a month so time to grind! HALP

Hey, first time posting here but i need advice on which toy to get as a kinda new male webcam model.

From what i read, lovense hush is the more comfortable one, you can walk around with it, doesn’t slip out etc.

Lovense edge is bigger in size (important for later), stronger and sometimes slips out.

Only thing that is making me uncertain is because people are saying Edge is uncomfortable after an hour, but again it is bigger in size so more people can see it and decide to tip. Which one would you recommend for streaming about 2 hours daily, mostly laying/sitting down? Any advice/experience would mean a lot!