My boyfriend [26M] and I [25F] have been dating for a year and I [25F] am feeling insecure of his friendship with his female friend [26F]
My boyfriend and I live an hour away from each other and we both work on weekdays so we usually hang out on weekends and we would have sleepovers.
My boyfriend has this close female friend that he grew up with since elementary school and she recently came back after graduation. I have hung out with them and they are all really chill and cool, including the girl. She is really nice too and she has a bf that lives other of country and they have been dating for over 6 years? They live like 15 minutes away from each other and she doesn’t really have a car and currently she is looking for jobs so shes at home most of the time. Whenever the group of friends hang out, he would always pick her up and drive her back home after the hang out, he would also invite her to play volleyball as they both play it. My boyfriend is very considerate of me too, whenever they hang out together as a group he would invite me too. He is the best bf ever literally, he would always bring me everywhere with his friends and volleyball games too. I do not play any volleyball and I grew out of state so I do not have friends whereas him and his female friend knows a lot of people.
I have always felt insecure because like I’ve mentioned before he would drive her around a lot and stuff.
So recently he has been inviting her out for volleyball a lot and one day we, my bf, his friend and me went to this game. I was just sitting there because I don’t play, the both of them were playing and practicing with each other. And while they played and one of the people asked his other friend “oh are they dating?” And that friend said no and that I was the girlfriend. Hearing that kinda made me feel sad and more insecure because in other people’s eyes, they must have looked like they were dating. Am I wrong for feeling jealous and upset at this?
TLDR : I \[25F\]my boyfriend \[26M\]and I have been dating for over a year and he has this close group of friends that he grew up with since he was in elementary school. The group consists of girls and guys. There is one female friend \[26F\] that always made me feel insecure.