u/Accomplished_Cat9599

I see many people say the reason bullies are more successful and move on with their lives is because they dont get stuck in the past. I’ll tell you this is pure bullshit. The reason why bullies are more successful in life is because capitalism as an economic system that affects everything in our society, rewards these people. Capitalism rewards people who exploit, manipulate, abuse the others. That’s the reason why everywhere you go, there’s at least one bully that gets away with everything. Nobody even says that because that would require a deeper analysis. Instead, we have people that say how the bullied ones are on the wrong bcs we are overdramatic and stuck in the past

Hey everyone. I just wanted to share my bullying story that lasted for nearly 4 years (from 6th to 9th grade). When i was a kid, i couldn’t understand why i was being bullied by my classmates. I was always the quiet kid minding my business and doing well in studies. I had no friends and had no one to defend me in those situations but myself.

The reasons they found to bully me were ridiculous. I was being bullied just out of spite for being the best student in class and having a much more developed vocabulary as the others. I was bullied for poorly defending myself from their provocations. I was bullied for having ofc, poor social skills. Now i think what if if has been just simply autism/ADHD all along?

Another reason was because i was a bit different from other boys in school. It was the realisation that i was bisexual and i felt very threatened if someone would say any word about it.

I was very frustrated as a kid and told only a few people about it. Despite doing much better in life and with myself now that i’m an adult, i still feel this has left me a mark in my life that needs more time to get rid off.