r/bullying

Very often they project that onto anyone they can find.

Lemme tell everyone my side, im upcoming g12

And im getting physically bullied and getting humiliated

Everytime im getting physically bullied im doing nothing

I am strong, i am not weak physically, but something in me holding back

Im too afraid too scared to fight back

What can i do im struggling.

I NEED HELP, IM GETTING BULLIED,IM STRONG, BUT IM ALWAYS AFRAID SCARED AND iDON'T FIGHT BACK

It doesn’t get better when people get older. Got bullied recently posting on DoorDash sub about an abusive customer and I posted wrong due to fatigue working late at night and didn’t include all the screenshots of the conversation and the bullies immediately took the side of the customer. At least DoorDash sided with me when I reported her abuse (they could see the entire text conversation).

Also was bullied by a 25 year old supervisor and other associates on the job floor while I was working. I reported him and one of the associates to ethics and even though there are cameras on the floor (unfortunately I am not allowed to record or I would have solid proof) they sided with the bullies.

Plus 20 years working in telecommunications witnessed and received countless bullying which was allowed. I left that industry and all those people were laid off due to department closures as a result of 5G and AI.

I worked for myself for a while and it was wonderful not dealing with bullying. Unfortunately AI became my competitor and won so I’m trying to figure out a new route in the meantime.

Okay so i am getting harrassed by these hand full of girls who are friends with my ex just walking up to me making snark comments about my hair or just saying plain ew. Were in highschool it doesn't bother me usually but its getting annoying and i don't want hurt someone since I am already stressed because of exam season and its a bitch move to hit a girl or just throw hands because of an insult. So i need help with throwing good insults back please.

Hey r/bullying,

Lurker here.

In a nutshell, the user or a family/friend who's claims they've been bullied and then asks the sub to go and report on the user's behalf.

Should there be a rule regarding such posts? On one hand, I sympathize with them because I've had to report bullying to school admin and teachers before and then the bullying doesn't stop. Additionally some people on the internet can be assholes, and I've encountered several of those particularly on Twitter, Reddit, and Discord. But on the other hand, the onus is on the user to prove that what they're alleging is true and the fact that we're not the legal system and are under no obligation to help.

I'm hopeful that the bullying stops for them, but at the same time I'd say try and resolve it with the moderators there first, and if they refuse to follow through, they can go here. If the bullying involves criminal acts, they should definitely go to the police.

What are your guys' thoughts?

I’m wondering if anyone has experienced something similar. Or how have they addressed it

Over the last 9 years I’ve had multiple physical issues that seem real and disruptive, but testing often comes back “normal” or not enough to explain what I’m experiencing. Years ago I had significant eye pain and saw specialists — tests were normal. My eyes improved by taking some special eye drops but have never felt the same since. Later I injured both wrists in the gym; doctors saw minor findings but basically told me they were normal even though I still felt pain. More recently I developed IBS (stomach pain without a known cause) which has affected my life a lot.

There are more examples, but the pattern is what gets me. It feels like every few months or years something else happens and I end up feeling like my body is slowly deteriorating. I’m 25 and I look around at people my age and it feels like they aren’t dealing with this amount of stuff.

I don’t want to torture myself but my hypothesis is that having experienced prolonged bullying between 12-14 years of age has something to do with my issues.

I’m tired of feeling like I’m limping through life physically and mentally. I don’t know what to do

TW: mentions of SH and ED

I (18F) go to a musical theatre college in the UK and recently found out that a girl from my current college (17F) got into the same college I’ll be attending in September. The problem is, she’s spent the past year making my life miserable.

I’ve struggled with bullying for years due to my AuADHD and “quirky” personality, so finally finding a place where people liked and accepted me meant everything. When this girl joined my current college, I tried hard to be kind to her because I know what it’s like to feel excluded. At first she seemed nice, but over time she became increasingly hostile toward me.

At one point, she twisted something I said about another student being “too touchy” and told teachers I was accusing that student of sexual assault, which I absolutely was not. As someone who has experienced SA and DV, the situation was really upsetting. She apologized and said it was a misunderstanding, so I forgave her.

But after that, the insults and humiliation got worse. Every interaction became comments like “who asked?” or “don’t care,” usually in front of others. Teachers noticed and spoke to her, but nothing changed. I kept trying to be nice and convincing myself I was overreacting, but honestly she just seems to enjoy making me feel small.

The constant exclusion and mockery badly affected my mental health, contributing to severe depression and an eating disorder. Outside this college, people actually like me, so I know I’m not the problem.

Today I congratulated her for getting into the same new college as me, and she looked me up and down and walked away while everyone laughed.

Now I want to completely distance myself from her when we start at the new college. But I also know she’s hurting too. I see her insecurities and SH scars, and part of me thinks she bullies me because she sees herself in me.

I feel guilty for wanting to cut her off, but being around her is destroying my mental health.

AITAH?

I know it's too long but please guys help me I so depre**** now bcz of all this 😭

Hello everyone so basically I'm 19 and last year maine apna neet ka second attempt diya... And I could get govt clg obviously I know that but then I decided to join private bams college.

Then counseling and all hua I got bams college in first round of counseling. Then phir main vaha gya and clg started so u guys may be know that ki medical colleges me course start hone se phele 15 days ka programme hota h and all. So vo start hua sabse phele then...

Flashback- Jab main 10th me tha tab lockdown ke time I got know that ki mujhe hearing problem 🥺 ho rhi h bahot phele se thi ab dhere dhere badh rhi hai 😭 then tabse mera treatment chal h no body can define the real reason ki kyu ho raha h but jo mere test hote h hearing ke usme bahot jada high nhi toh ek dam low bhi nhi thik thak problem show hoti h ki like bina machine ke bhi kaam chal jayega bus baaton pr focus krna hai n all.....

Now jab vo programme chal raha tha then mujhe laga ki mujhe sunne me dikkat ho rhi h but mujhe laga shayad log jada h isiliye becz us time vaha seniors professor sab hote the so I think ki isi wajah se focus nhi kr pa raha hu then...

After the end of programme mujhe laga ab thik hoga sirf hamare batch ke bache honge but still I can't clearly ki professor kya padh rhe h 🥺 main bahot jada pareshan ho gya infact vo podium pr padhte h the hamare class me 3 speakers the tab bhi yaha tak ki maine first desk se last desk har jagah baith kr dekha I can only hear 🙉 some words like 100% me se sirf 10% sun pa raha tha and also you guys know ki colleges ki classes kitni badi hoti h maine toh first time life me dekhi thi aaj tak tv me dekhi thi ki ese stairs jaise hote h benches n all 😅 then after 1 month (15 days programme and 15 days normal classes) main bahot pareshan ho gya har time bus rona aa raha tha also I'm from middle class toh bahot saari baatein mind me chal rhi thi like paise lage hai relatives ko pta chal gya h 🥺

Then I talk about all these things with my papa and vo usi din mujhe lene ke liye aa gye clg which was at 350 km from home.

Then hum wapis ghar aaye clg se leave leke dr ko dikhane ke liye then Dr says that ki itni problem nhi h ki ear machine lagaye but agar aapko esa lgta h clg me toh Bina ear machine aur machine dono ke sath try krke dekhte h test and the result was same bina ear machine ke bhi utani hi problem show ho rahi thi jitna ear machine ke sath then he says ki may be aapko capd ho sakta hai (central auditory processing disorder) then unhone mujhe ek mahine baad iska test karwane ko bola then papa ne kai jagah pta kiya but mere pure state me iska test kahi available nhi tha 🙂

Then I again go back to college.... Or kyu gya wapis aur kya hua vaha aage ki baat jaane ke liye pls reply.

Mera yeh baat batane ka motive yeh nhi hai ki main views again karu and all balki yeh ki I genuinely want someone jo mujhe is situation me se bahar nikal sake jisme main abhi phasa hua or mujhe guide kre 🥺😭 aur aage ki story isiliye nhi likhi maine kyuki fayeda kya kisi ko kuch batane ka jab log sunna ya aapko kuch guide hi na karna chahe...

It disgusts me fr. I hate how our society as a whole defends perpetrators, bullies, toxic parents, and every other type of bad people, even when we have all the evidence that shows they're indeed evil. It seems to have no end, and it's getting worse day after day.

Most people like to talk about how moral they are and what we should do to stop bullying, yet they do the same thing they condemn the second they turn their backs, and the rest of the masses find it normal somehow. The victims are always expected to move on, "forget and forgive", while the perpetrators and bad people in general are let free to keep harming, manipulating, and exploiting others.

I have a strong sense of justice, and it makes me really depressed because I've realized that human nature, at least for the majority of people in the world, is evil, wicked, and ruthless, and the few good people remaining are daily offended, suppressed, and even hurt nonstop, while most of the declared bad people are loved and even rewarded for their harmful deeds.

The worst thing in the world is being a victim of bullying; I hate going out in the street with my girlfriend because of it.

I mentioned I like to shop at hobby lobby for fun on facebook and people keep making up false accusations against me saying your bigot, trump supporter , your learning disability isn’t excuse to be a shitty person , hate filled, homophobic, I didn’t do anything wrong what is so wrong with my positive comment I like to go there for fun I’m so tired of getting falsely accused over something I never did or said why a harmless comment results in people making extreme and harsh comments I’m a innocent person who has every right to opinion why am I to blame , I get falsely accused of being a transphobic over liking Harry Potter like I’m allowed to like those things it’s a free country and I’m not gonna stop liking those things and I’m not gonna apologize I don’t believe that I’m hurting anyone I’m person that just living life and doing fun things , it’s crazy people assume that I’m hurting people when I did no such thing they should stop making up false lies about me , I’m not using a learning disability as excuses, I don’t deserve to be bullied online over a harmless comment or where I shop in USA

.She never deserves to be happy, not a single day of her fucking life.

She doesn't deserve to be happy when she's still taunting me on social media, showing how proud she is of the harm she's done to me.

She doesn't deserve for people to find her beautiful and kind after the pain she's caused me and the wickedness within her.

I hope she fails.

I am not really a yapper so I don't know what to put in decription...
Basically, I have been bullied for at least a year and being called the N word (by a german btw, ironic). I am wondering if anyone have tips to embrace these violent thoughts and how to stand up for myself if the bullying ever starts again. Such as which is the best self defense art? How do I get strong quickly?

I go to a private school in Sweden. In Sweden we have free education, so no, I wouldn’t label myself ”rich kid”. Anyway.

I’ve been feeling down for almost all of April. To cope with this, I started to drag out hair from my head. (I know, it’s weird.) It was first now, in May, that I saw that I had a 3 cm wide gap in my hair where the hair was much thinner than on the left side. (I now, of course, understand the consequences of my actions and how severe it turned out.)

So, I went to school. My school, sadly, has a no-hats policy inside the building. This includes hoods. I continued my day like normal. I wouldn’t tell anyone if they didn’t ask me.

The day went like normal. When we were in the corridor, waiting for our maths teacher to open the classroom to get in, my bully came up to me. She’s my GF’s best friend (somehow), and she’s the most bitchy, snarky and petty person I’ve met.

”UM… Ew, why do you have a big bald spot on your head? You look like an old man…”

I finally snapped at her. Everything she’s said to me has culminated to this.

”Yeah, dragging out hair to cope with my feelings is cringe. Being borderline depressed is SO not cool. I’m sorry, I’m going to try to not have feelings”, I said.

Everybody looked at me. The silence was ringing in my ears. Finally, she doubled down,

”Then why did you drag out your hair? There are knives…”

I have childhood ”trauma” from my dad making me cut an onion. I was five, and it was a ”throw him in the water, he’ll learn to swim” moment. I cut my thumb and had to go to the ER.

”Oh, my dad almost cut off my thumb once.”

She looked mortified, huffed and got frustrated, and walked away with her Nee-Doh and her corny friends.

ever since i can remember I was constantly made a fool of, made to feel stupid, not taken seriously in my childhood and was also bullied and fat shamed.
now as an adult i think of myself as stupid and gullible and have very low self esteem :(