u/gkodexdragon
Iwtl to dance
How can I learn dancing when I’m already teen, I was thinking of dance class but how can I follow up to others fast as possible?
Is it weird to look at black person?
I live in a country where most people are white so is it weird to look at black person a second longer?
Why are people racist?
What people gain from being racist?
How to get rid of tonsil stones?
So I always have had tonsil stones like once in a few months or so, but now I they have gotten bigger(4mm-5mm) (they used to be tiny) and usually they come 1-2 at once(sometimes 2, mostly 1) I got rid of one 1-2 weeks ago and now I got it again but how do I get rid of them permanently or atleast fast?
Do bullies ever feel regret or shame?
So ive been thinking about it for a while, do bullies ever feel ashamed or guilt?
I have seen on tiktok people telling ,,I feel so guilty for what I did” but do they actually feel anything?
I have been bullied and last year my friend was heavily bullied, teachers dont do anything, is it because they think theyre kids and its part of getting older etc..
Whats going on in bully’s head?
Fake it till you make it: fear of spiders
Believe it or not, this mindset works really well on fears. I used to be scared of spiders like crazyy when I was younger. Then I sometimes wanted to impress people by making it seem like I had no fear of spiders while others freaked out. And now after doing it for a longer time I noticed U actually don’t fear then anymore, like they can just be in the corner chilling and even if I notice them I don’t freak out or anything so I recommend trying this.
When do you know when your friendship is not strong with someone anymore?
So for context I have a bsf but lately she has acted weird for example she would get easily mad at me(she has always told stuff about my looks etc),
we were supposed to go to one night camp and she didn’t show up nor she told me that she wouldn’t come and said its not that deep but once when i was away for some hours of school day she said all kind of things to me but i was away cuz of student council stuff, also she texted me and asked me to hangout but i didnt certainly say yes cuz it was evening and i knew my mother won’t allow on such short notice so i said lets go to gym tomorrow, she said yes and didnt show up.
Like its fun w her and we have so much good memories and honestly i feel awfully for asking for advice in here and ive always tried to support her but she barely supports me but ive told my parents good abt her even if we had an argument last year i didnt tell what she did wrong cause i didnt want to seem like i have hard time w friends and stuff and i havent been the best myself too ofc, cuz we went to mall w her and one other friend and i also wanted to meet up w another friend cuz u hadn’t seen her for months and they didnt want to so i said i can go alone too and then they were like we coming then they said we wont come and once we met up i called for then TWICE they didnt come and then i got message again that im a shitty friend etc..
Like what should i do?
Is it normal for old cats to be overweight?
I have 14yo cat who is 7-8kg and she barely moves around only to food bowl and places she likes to sleep so some basic movement but she doesnt eat that much, like 4-6 times a day BUT those are small portions (otherwise our other cat eats her food) and sometimes she doesnt even finish that food.
Can MC cats be trained?
So recently my parents got MC kitten and there are lots of stories ive hear that they can be trained but ive been trying to teach her stuff w treats and it doesnt seem to work.
If you have MC and have triend to train a cat did it work?
What would you choose?
So this year I have to make a choice:
\-stay in the same school
\-go ti another school
So ive spent so much time thinking about it and honestly i dont know which one to choose.
Same school pros:
\-might get new friends
\-can live at home with mom and dad
\-small classes and small school
\-small town aesthetics(some days)
Same school cons:
\-old toxic people might stay
\-no after school activities
New school pros:
\-might get new friends
\-so much after school activities
\-getting connections
\-might get into good school
New school cons:
\-cant live at home
\-can be expensive (if i get to dorms then not too expensive but if not then yeah)
One day i feel like i want to go to new school, the other day i feel like i want to be home forever and one reason i really want to go is cause in the city there are many opportunities for singing and dancing classes(for example hip hop and break dance) which are my dream (i want to be singer ir a dancer but because i havent had much opportunities for dancing im not good so yeah there’s one dance group in here but i have to check if time is okay.
What would you do because i cant listen to my brain since it tells me both are good options.
TL:DR- would you change schools or stay in thw same school if you have a chance?
What would you choose?
So this year I have to make a choice:
-stay in the same school
-go ti another school
So ive spent so much time thinking about it and honestly i dont know which one to choose.
Same school pros:
-might get new friends
-can live at home with mom and dad
-small classes and small school
-small town aesthetics(some days)
Same school cons:
-old toxic people might stay
-no after school activities
New school pros:
-might get new friends
-so much after school activities
-getting connections
-might get into good school
New school cons:
-cant live at home
-can be expensive (if i get to dorms then not too expensive but if not then yeah)
One day i feel like i want to go to new school, the other day i feel like i want to be home forever and one reason i really want to go is cause in the city there are many opportunities for singing and dancing classes(for example hip hop and break dance) which are my dream (i want to be singer ir a dancer but because i havent had much opportunities for dancing im not good so yeah there’s one dance group in here but i have to check if time is okay.
What would you do because i cant listen to my brain since it tells me both are good options.
Things noone talks about
Thing noone talks about is definitely when one friend is hated for no reason then how it puts pressure on your friendship w that friend.
Like idk why everybody hate her we get along so well and stuff and everytime i say yeah i did that w her or so on i recive weird looks and so on.
Like please dont be that person that puts pressure on someone’s friendship with someone just cause you dont like one person. It’s genuinely very annoying and selfish.