Trouble in bed
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now, and everything between us is great. But I’m finding our sexual life to be a bit unbalanced. For the past 5 years, me and my boyfriend haven’t had sex once. We’re both still virgins. He struggles to remain hard in bed, which depletes his confidence. I never had an issue with it, because I’ve had fun doing other things mostly for his pleasure. I initiate 90% of things. Making out with him, giving him head, grinding on him, hand jobs, while he doesn’t do much back. But now I’m becoming a bit sad about it. Most of my friends have had sex, and I have not. I know it’s not good to compare, but if we could just do it once, it’d be great. My boyfriend really wants to have sex, but he’s so nervous and shy that he can’t remain hard. I try guiding him, reassuring him, leading him. We sext just fine, the sexting is great actually. But he says it has nothing to do with me, but I’m not so sure anymore.
Is there anything I can do to help calm my boyfriend’s nerves? Help him through anxiousness?