u/Accomplished_Fee682

So I’ve been seeing this girl for around a month now I’m 26M she is 25F. Ever since we met up we haven’t looked back we’ve been seeing each other every weekend because she lives 1 hour away, been ringing each other, sending videos, sending tik tok’s. So today she rang me for about 30 minutes just saying how her day was going and that she got her nails done. It was a great phone call as always but after she text me like two minutes later saying “ are we both going into this too fast we should take things slower “. She’s mostly on about sending marriage, future things etc on tik tok and talking about future holidays we should take together. I agreed and insisted we should slow down. She said thanks for understanding she just wants to do it right. She’s actually the one that’s sending me loads of videos about what the future could look like and on about future holidays I just agree to be on the same page as her. Should I pull back texting ? Or what should I do ?

So I 27M was seeing a girl 28F for nearly two months now and everything was going so well everyday we would text all the time, been out loads together even use to stay over at hers. We went to the cinema the other night and it was great we were cuddling getting a long together. We were supposed to head away this weekend for 2 nights but unfortunately not anymore. I was supposed to see her today but she decided to head out with friends and she was being distant last few days even blanking me on text. I told her I wanted to end things and she finally replied and she said okay no problem. She finally came out and said she sorta lost feelings (maybe because I was coming on strongly) and she couldn’t see anything further than this. I apologised about the text I just wanted to get through to her. Today I left flowers and a letter outside her door and she replied with this - Hey, I read your letter and I do appreciate you being honest about how you feel. I’ve thought about it, and I just don’t feel the same way. I don’t see this going anywhere, and that’s not something that’s going to change.i really did enjoy or time together it was really good and everything did seem perfect so it wasn’t just you but things did change and I did quickly realise this isn’t what I wanted I feel like I’m not ready to give myself to anyone yet or be seeing anyone I just need to find myself properly again because I lost who I was from being in such a long relationship,

I need you to respect that and give me some space. I think it’s best for both of us if we move on.

I really do wish you the best though.

I just don’t understand I could see this going somewhere and I know she did Aswell because we talked about it. I feel so lost feels like that we were together. Will she ever come back ?