12 min of therapeutic analogy on what you are going through and why you need to stop engaging
“There's a loop people who've dealt with narcissists know well. You explain. They don't get it. You explain better. You wait for acknowledgment that never comes.
The standard explanation — they're too defended, too fragile — keeps you in the wrong frame. It implies there's something to get through to. There isn't.
This video is about the actual architecture: why the loop runs, why they seem to know exactly which version of "you're not enough" lands hardest, and where the feeling of being fundamentally defective actually came from.
No therapeutic framework. Just the mechanics.”
This woman is amazing!
u/According-Ad742 — 7 days ago