How do you know it’s real?
As a certified lover girl, my friends would probably say that I have a crush every other week. While this is embarrassing to admit out loud and not something I’m proud of, I wouldn’t say that they are wrong in this assumption.
I guess to give context, I’m a 26F. I’ve never been in a relationship or had someone be interested in me beyond hooking up. For a period of time, I worked with guys that I would convince myself I was attracted to and form a “crush” but I often started to question if I actually liked them or just the idea of them.
There’s also this part of me that worries that maybe I only liked them for shallow reasons. Examples would be; someone else likes them so they seem more attractive to me, or they show the most minut interest in me so I latch on, or I’m simply feeling a bit more spicy🫦 that week.
I guess what I’m really wanting to know is how do you other lover girls decipher a true crush versus a fleeting attraction to someone? And how do you keep yourself occupied enough to not fall into a crush out of boredom or shallow reasons😂