u/According_Plane_6761

I met this really cute stripper one day during the day. We chatted maybe 5 or 10 minutes and went straight to vip. She was latina 21 maybe 95 pounds. Super cute and sweet personality. We actually hit it off in vip and lets jusy say I left happy. I got her number however I decided not to text her much. Maybe 2 weeks later I saw her on roll call and she asked me to swing by and since she was responsive I went. As I arrived I waited 30 minutes but couldnt see her. Finally she shows up on stage. But sure enough this customer was clearly in love with her and tipped her maybe 500 on stage. She mentioned theres a 45 yr old dude in love with her and Im sure thats him. Im also 100% sure he just finished smashing so I lost my appeal. By this time its midnight. I texted her Im still here and she texted me back shes leaving on a 30 minute break. I texted her Ok im leaving then. So I left immediately and as I was opening my car another car next to me was parked kinda blocking my door. It ended up being the girl. The girl was inside and I pretended I didnt see her. As I was about to leave she told me to roll down the window and we started chatting..she said where you leaving to. I said to eat at in n out. She said that sounds bomb. She ended up hopping in my car and we went to the drive thru. The whole way there were chatting and talking. It was just overall super cool having a hot 21 yr old in my car. I dropped her back off at work since she said she was really on a break and took her food inside. She told me I was impatient and I should go inside but told her no thanks that I had a long day. Again although shes cute I didnt want to spend hundreds on leftovers. She then texts me at night and next day she texts me lets meet up outside the club to eat again this week. This girl is definitely my type

Shes smoking hot and I wanna see her. So now I dont know the situation. Is she really looking for a food date or quick hotel or both? I dont know what she means. I do wanna see her at a hotel. My best experiences with strippers have been when weve hooked up outside. It completely changes the dynamic. It feels like youve officially earned there trust. But right now just insure what this girl means. Im like 80% shes good with hotel only. Or maybe shes down for the meetup but wants the hookup to be kinda unplanned. Well see.

I had a very rock timultous relationship with a stripper for about 2 years. Long story short we hooked up since day 1. We hooked up everywhere

at her place and my place. In her car in my car. Bunch of times at the club and even went on a couple trips together. It was always transactional. We broke up several times with the last one being super bad. I went to her place unannounced and knocked at her door and demanded she came out. She texted me saying to leave right away. I thought the relationship would be over since that was rock bottom for me. We didnt talk 3 months after that until I decided to randomly text her and she responded. Then 3 days after she called me and claimed there was an emergency and needed me to come over. I was scared and thought I was gonna get mugged. I dont want to say what the emergency was but I ended up calling the cops as I assessed the situation. For the next 2 months she stopped working. We grew closer. We didnt fight once and would always laugh and hang out but nothing too physical. Just hugging and cuddling on dates or at her pad. I did pay her a small amount to help her but nothing like before since now there were no extras.. Things were great though.. But suddenly I felt distant again..she would dissapear for 2-3 days. I think on two occasions she claimed she was at the hospital but no pictures or anything to prove it. She has a history of bipolar maybe even schizo. But for the most part she hid symptoms from me. Well one day I told her I wanted to maybe try to be more intimate. Dont know why she flipped out. She basically told me off saying she wasnt interested in me in that way. But it was the way she went about it. She didnt put it gently. Instead she yelled at me in like a latina pissed off toxic mood. I told her chill. That I just care for her and I just wanted to know if there could be more. She just told me off and was pissed. But I dont get why she was that mad. I told her we can take things slow. The chemistry and energy was always there..in a last desperate attempt I tried to salvage things amd was just blocked again. So its been 3 weeks. I realized this girl was just so bad for me and I could do so much better. Her mental breakdowns were getting the best of her. And honestly I reached a tipping point Im fed up with her bs. So about 2 weeks ago my focus was to try to go to other strip clubs and seek girls I had super high attraction. So I ended up merting 2 girls at the samr club and I ended up hitting it off with both of them. It was just a matter of time. So word of advice. If a girl ever fucks you over just know theres plenty of fish out in the sea. And if you have confidence in yourself amd focus on your own well being the girls will come flocking. So thats whats been happening. Obviously since it was 2 years with someone I do miss her but Im ready for the journey to come. Guys you dont have to put up with disrespectful woman. You just dont.