u/AccountantLeast1094

▲ 271 r/GuyCry

Being cheated on by the love of my life turned my life around….for the better.

Exactly 18 months ago, I made a damn post here, pouring my heart out of how my GF had been acting distant and had been going out to party a lot, every weekend etc, many people called me a control
Freak but turns out, in one of her parties, she met a dude and she slept with him.

16 month ago, I made another post crying again because she admitted she slept with someone and was begging for me back and how heartbroken i was.

Financially, I was a bum, no real job, no future, no respect from anyone, not even myself and literally hit rock bottom. I cried for the first time, I stared into the sky at night and cried my heart out. I had never felt that level defeat, rock bottom baby!

I’m making a post here because I scrolled to my past posts and saw it all. That feeling of hitting rock bottom forced me to confront myself and forced me to take a hardddd look at myself. I started working then, maybe to do something for myself or maybe just to distract myself from the pain. I worked 14 hours a day, maybe more on some days I was exhausted but grateful that I got to be so busy.

Today, I’ve 10x my income, I have multiple people I work with from around the world, still work like a donkey, social circle full of people who actually wants to do great things in life, an export business, and savings…lol I’ve never had savings before. The clown from a year ago would never have believed I’d be where I am today.

So guys, if I can do it, so can you. If you have hit rock bottom, congratulations, you are in your character building arc. You will be surprised how much your life can change in 1 year. Get back up and start swinging boys!

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