My Girlfriend is Army and I'm starting to feel weird about it. What should I do?'M/18' GF'F/19'
hi guys
My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8 months. She has been an ARMY for a long time. Recently, I’ve been feeling a bit weird, so I talked to her about it, but I’m still confused and hoping someone can understand how I feel and give me advice.
When we started dating, she told me she was an ARMY, and I was happy because BTS helped her and healed her, as she said. I even started listening to their music, although it’s not really my type. Still, I do like some songs like FRI(END)S. She often reposts their content and constantly praises their looks.
Once, I replied to one of her reposts with a simple smiling emoji and a question mark. She immediately got excited and started saying, “He is so good-looking,” and kept talking about him (I don’t remember his name). That made me feel jealous. It feels heavy in my heart hearing her talk so passionately about another guy, and I honestly don’t know what to do with these feelings.
One day, when we went to a mall, there was a Jungkook Calvin Klein poster. She got really excited and started shouting to her friend, “Hey, it’s JK!” We stood there for about 10 minutes. Later, when I talked to her about how it made me feel, she said it’s just platonic love and that there’s nothing wrong with it, and that I shouldn’t feel this way.
I’m really confused about what I should do.