My girlfriend [24F] and I [25M] dont do anything
This feels crazy to say because my girlfriend and I are genuinely happy together. We recently bought a house, we have enough money for hobbies and little things we enjoy, and overall life is good.
But honestly… we don’t really do much.
We have a good relationship, a healthy sex life, an adorable shiba, and we genuinely enjoy spending time together. Most nights though, if we’re not watching TV, she’s usually smoking and scrolling TikTok while I head down to my office and play video games. And to be fair, that’s completely fine, especially during the week when there’s barely any time after work, cooking dinner, cleaning up, and walking the dog.
I think the part that gets to me sometimes is that we don’t really have shared hobbies. Outdoors stuff can also be tough because she has pretty bad stomach issues, so spontaneous trips or long days out aren’t always easy. I love her a ton and I’m happy with our life together, but sometimes it feels like every day is just rinse and repeat.
So I’m curious — what do you guys do with your partners? Weekdays or weekends, cheap or expensive, I’d love ideas