u/AcrobaticGeologist78

AITA - wedding situation between brother of the bride and his partner.

My bride and I got married in Singapore and invited 20 guests, my parents, her parents, my siblings and her sibling and sibling partners. We all flew from New Zealand for the wedding.

During the wedding photos, we took a group shot with the entire invite list, shots with the parents, siblings, bridesmaids, and groomsmen, but we didn’t take a separate photo with my bride’s brother’s fiancée, who wasn’t a bridesmaid.

Now her brother and fiancée are upset with us because she wasn’t included in the photo. They’re also annoyed that there weren’t more detailed directions to the ceremony, even though the invite included the venue address and the location in the venue it was taking place at and time.

The weather was bad, so the ceremony had to be moved undercover at the same venue, and we were only getting updates from the coordinator as things changed. we were the only wedding at the venue that day so they could have spoken with reception saying they were guests here for the wedding.

Later, the bride’s brother moved his seat away from the bride at the allocated dinner seating plan without asking and chose not to give the speech he had planned out of protest.

i was told this by the MC. I then confronted the brides brother about this during the dinner reception in private where he said the above as the reason.

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u/AcrobaticGeologist78 — 3 days ago