I like this girl, and I have a feeling she might like me
Hey, so I’ve seen plenty of these kinds of posts, and am currently going through a similar kind of thing that I’ve seen others going through on here, so I thought I’d actually ask for some advise.
Pretty much, it’s what the title says. I have a crush on a girl. Nothing new. The thing about this is I think there’s a chance she feels the same way towards me. I’ll give you the whole situation so you can let me know what you would do in my stead, so here goes.
I have never had any luck when it comes to relationships or any of the normal stuff teenagers go through when they start to have these kinds of feelings. This is in large part to the fact I’m pretty over weight. I’m not morbidly obese or anything, but I’m fat. No getting around it. So in the past I’ve had crushes on girls, but have never had said feelings reciprocated. What’s different about this time is I have a feeling that they might feel a similar way.
I’ve recently started my first year at uni and in one of my classes we have a group project (as you do). Well as you can probably guess we are in the same group, so have in the last few weeks spent a lot of time together as it is a practical assignment and we are constructing a physical prototype. Like a teenage boy often does, I started to have feeling a for this girl when we would spend hours working on this assignment and just chatting shit and talking. And I swear, I’ve never had this kind of chemistry before with someone. We have the exact same kind of humor. I’ll make a stupid joke that I’m thinking will make her think I’m weird or a nerd or something, and she’ll clap back with the same level energy. Along with this the last time we hung out and tested our prototype we just talked for like 2 hours straight and I don’t know how to explain this feeling, but I was trying to be as like ‘obvious’ as possible, and she was still matching me.
So that brings us to now. I’ve only got one more testing day and then the day we will be presenting, and then my classes are done for the semester, so I won’t have an excuse to still see her, and I don’t have any classes with her next semester either, which I’m disappointed with. So what the hell do I do? Do I try and ask her to hang out at like a movie or something ? But what if I’m just misinterpreting all this and she’s just being friendly? I can’t stop myself thinking about her. I think I have a tendency to over think these kinds of situations, so I’ll leave this up to whoever has the patience to read this ramble of a post. I know this is a pretty basic scenario but I’d genuinely appreciate any advice someone who has some experience in this area would have to give. Cheers