My mom survived an aneurysm
My mom survived a ruptured aneurysm 7 years ago. She recovered fairly quickly, was awake and talking after 2 days, able to walk with assistance after a week or 2, was eating solid foods without choking after a month and a bit. And finally released from the hospital after 2-3 months. She really is doing so good. But for all intents and purposes I lost my mother that day.
Her personality has shifted? Or maybe it’s more like she reverted to a child, though she has grown to be more like a teenager at this point. Anyway, she doesn’t like us, her children, we are adults but we used to be so close prior to the rupture. She is so angry and full of rage and how she expresses herself is to be mean, to say hateful things. She is very selfish and hates when we distance ourselves but hates when we are with her. We are all emotionally exhausted, tired of being verbally abused at her whim.
I don’t know if I’m looking for advice, or if I just need to get it out. I just miss my mom so much.