WIBTAH for wanting to leave my husband after going through his phone?
Hi there, I didn't think I would need to post on Reddit until this incident. I've listened to a lot of stories but didn't think I would need other people's opinions about my life. I know it's bad to go through your partners phone but he (36M) has been so secretive lately. I (27F) finally figured out his passcode and saw that my husband (we are not legally married it's just easier to call him this since we've been together for 7 years and have a son together) has been messaging and hanging out with an old coworker of our which has been a point of contingency between us. He sent this coworker explicit pictures. I am not someone who is good with handling conflict or tough conversations it just turns into a screaming match and him gaslighting me that I'm the problem and everything is my fault. Reddit please help I'm spiraling and don't know what to do. WIBTAH for wanting to leave my husband after going through his phone?