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Two days ago, I questioned my husband on his whereabouts and I wasn’t ready to hear the truth. Found out my husband of 13 years used a hookup site and received a BJ before work last week from a total stranger. He swears that was the first time in the 13 years we’ve been together. I’m still in shock and honestly don’t know which way is up. We also have 3 kids in the mix which complicates things a lot. Part of me wants to pretend it never happened yet I know I can’t just turn a blind eye. Is it even possible for a marriage to survive after something like this? I always said cheating would be an automatic dealbreaker for me yet now that I’m in it, it feels so much more complicated. I feel devastated, heartbroken, and lost.