How did you guys know you liked other trans girls? I need help 😭😭
Ive known i liked boys since i was 10 before i even knew i was trans and its been such a big part of me cos i struggled so much with it. It took me a while to ditch the gay label even after transitioning at 14. Ive never been into girls and ive never thought about being with a girl but i became friends with a trans woman and she told me she was into me and at first i just felt odd about it and just tried to ignore it but as she keeps on flirting and dropping little hints about being together im starting to reconsider and not to be dramaric but its kind of changing how i view my self. In my dysphoric mind being into women is like a man thing (i know this is obviously not true most of my friends are lesbians and i dont think that way about other trans women who are into women but it feel different for me) and it just makes me feel weird inside and its obviously something i need to challenge, but everytime she says something about us dating i start considering it more but in my mind there are so many cons to it that i know dont make sense but my brain keeps trying to convince me that theyre issues. Like getting married, ive always seen myself marrying a man and having kids with a man its like im trying to rewire my brain to give my self new life goals. Idk i feel like im not making sense i just wanted someone to talk to about this cos idk what to think or feel. Idk if anyone will read this but thank youuuuu if you do and id love some advice from some experianced trans lesbains lol. Also im very tired while writing this so sorry if it doesnt make sense
Edit- i feel like i didnt make it fully clear but im also a trans woman lol what i need help with is figuring out if i actually like her and how to feel okay with potentially being with her