u/AdGold3333

Spouse help

I have started reading my scriptures again, studying the come follow me, and getting on my actual hands knees to pray. It’s only been 2ish weeks and I can already feel the comfort that brings. There are some thing coming up that are very out of my control and I’ve been in full anxiety attacks, not sleeping or eating but since returning to the small things asked of us I have felt a lot more peace that it will all work out that way he sees fit and I will be okay.

The thing is, my husband is still very much in anxiety mode and sooooo stressed. He got upset with me that I can be so “normal” and while I still get stomach knots, and have really heavy times. I am able to find some peace.

I’ve tired to explain that I’ve prayed a lot and started to read my scriptures to help and just says that’s good. You need that.

Last night he hit a jack rabbit on his way home from work and ruined the front end of his car and radiator. We have insurance but our deductible is almost exactly what we have left after each pay check. 2 weeks ago his battery went out and it was $250 to change and get his oil changed. He said last night in frustration that we can’t catch a break. I tried again to bring up that maybe he needs to try somethings and he shrugged it off

Any tips for maybe helping him remember hard days are part of all this?

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u/AdGold3333 — 10 days ago