Hello!!
First time traveler from Australia. Myself and my friend, both female aged 23, are going to Thailand and need some location recommendations for the best places to stay in Phuket during this time as I understand it is rainy season.
Any tips welcome !!
Thank you
Little bit of background:
Myself (F23) had a group of 4 friends all females aged 23. We have all know eachother for around 5 years. This year, two of the girls have moved far away so it just left 3 of us still leaving in the same town, will call them k and w.
K and W used to work at the same place, and at their work they met two other girls (will call them H&J).
Over the last 2 years K and W began inviting these two other work girls to birthday celebrations, hangouts etc. Over this time I began establishing a relationship with these two girls and they invited me to their birthday events and I did the same, I consider them good friends and we all get along really well.
However, I notice that K and W will often hangout with H and J without inviting me. It will be like getting coffee, or going for a walk etc. Once when W was busy K let me know they were going for a walk and I joined K, H and J on a walk and it was a good time. Like we do generally all get along very well.
However, they all just went to get coffee this weekend and didn’t invite me. And I would be lying if I said this did not upset me a lot. Since two of our friends moved away, I would consider K,W,H and J as our friend group that is left in the same town, so when they do this it feels like everyone is hanging out together expect me.
I understand they originally were work friends and when our other friends still lived here I feel like it was easier to accept because I didn’t know H and J as well and had my other two friends living here that weren’t invited either. But now it is just us three living here and when they all hangout I feel excluded.
I am closest with K and was considering saying something to her, but also have no idea what to say?
They all hung out yesterday morning and I was getting ready to say something but then K called me and came over after for a little bit and I didn’t know what to say so I didn’t end up saying anything.
But I feel like I need to as I’m quite upset and have a little bit of resentment building.
Don’t know if I should just wait until the next time they all hang out to say something or if I should say something now?
Any advice on what to say and who I should talk to would be greatly appreciated 🙏🏼 Also let me know if I am just being Entitled.
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