u/AdObjective8181

I’ve been dating a dismissive-avoidant guy for about 2–3 months. Early on, he asked to be “exclusively dating” so we could see if we’re actually a good match.

Recently, he told me he misses me and we went on a date, but right after that, he ghosted me for almost 4 days. Then he sent a long message saying how great I am, how meaningful our connection was, but that he thinks we’re incompatible. He even referenced reasons we had already discussed during a serious conversation before.

I didn’t reply because I honestly didn’t know what to say. It’s been 3 days now.

Do you think he’ll still reach out again? I really miss him. He’s genuinely nice in person, just not big on texting.

I’ve been dating this dismissive avoidant guy for around 2-3 months and he randomly ghosted me for 3 days. Then he came back with a long message saying he usually ghosts, but this is the first time he’s ever reached out after.

He said our connection was meaningful and that it hurts for him too, but he thinks we’re incompatible and it would be hard long-term, so basically he ended things over text.

Then at the end he added that I can “reach out anytime if I need anything,” which honestly just confused me more.
I didn’t reply and now it’s been 2 days. Part of me feels guilty because I’m not the type to ignore people, but also… what am I even supposed to say to that?
Is it worth replying or asking to meet up? Our connection has always been in person.

Also be honest, do guys like this usually come back again or is this done-done? 😆