I’m not ready but I’m getting closer
My bf and I broke up about 4 months ago. We had been on again off again for 2 years.
I don’t think I’m ready to date again but I think I will want to in another few months.
Since my divorce, I’ve struggled with how to gage sexual compatibility. Introduce the subject too early, sex becomes the focus. Too late and I’m emotionally invested before I realize we are incompatible. Sex is important to me and I would like my partner to be curious, comfortable in their own sexuality, and secure enough to not be intimidated by mine.
I’ve seen this question before from both men and women. So is there a secret? I know it isn’t an exact science, but when do you find it makes sense to talk have a conversation about what you want from a relationship in terms of sex? People seem so comfortable talking about desires regarding exclusively, cohabitation, marriage, even finances. The subject of sex seems trickier.