I am the a hole
not using real names
I(20)male, left the mother of my child (26) for my brothers (19) partner/mother of his child (18)
I had been with the mother of my child for about two years . from the beginning we were having problems due to trust issues . There were rumors about her talking to other men while we were first dating .Not long after she got pregnant and we event moved in together .I am not going to get into details of reasons why our relationship got more complicated however I will say the main reason why. I was the only one working while she stayed at home and did nothing all day. no cleaning no cooking and not taking care of the kids. she has another child from her previous relationship. it got to a point where I didn’t feel happy with her and grew tired of it, I would still get home and cook for myself . we got into more arguments which led me to telling that if she didn’t cooperate with house duties or at very least bathe the kids and have warm food I would leave and find someone who would. after constantly repeating myself I started to fall less for her and this is where I screwed up. a few months ago I started receiving provocative text and pictures from my brothers partner . I don’t know how it happened but I went along with it . I had a second phone that she would text and contact me to meet up and we eventually started sleeping together . Mother of my child started to suspect and searched my car and she found my second phone and found all the messages we were sending each other . She confronted me which I couldn’t deny since she had the phone in her hand . She then send the pictures to my brother and his girl admitted everything to him . I’m in a pickle because just found out they are both pregnant although I’m not sure if the other child is mine or my brothers . I got kicked out and have no where to go . My family wants nothing to do with me .