u/Additional_Rich9807

pls read my previous post for context.. i got his update that pandit is saying no as love marriage is not written in our destiny.. and if can be fatal if done.. he has been angry..frustrated and sick .. having weakness and vomiting and not even talking to me properly.. his parents are not letting him use phone or talk to anyone and telling him to transfer to another city. already he’s in his hometown since 2 weeks and the thought of him going away is killing me . and now after the verdict they don’t want us to marry.. giving ultimatums to him .. and he’s frustrated and not talking to me nicely.. saying i’ll never love a single soul.. will remain single all my life and now idc about any living being etc etc.. he has never been like this.. honestly im worried.. my world is shattered

So i’m dating my bf who is very emotionally stable, sorted, calm and overall a nice guy.. it’s my first time experiencing such a good relationship.. everything is well so he decided to tell his mom.. he asked about my birth details and then she matched kundlis on an app.. 25/36 gunas match.. and mangal effect is very little .. then his father went for opinion from his astrologer friend… who told them mangal effect is high which can be fatal for life.. he got scared… now they have one family astrologer who lives in another city.. he took his parents there and it has been 4-5 hours since we last spoke.. he was scared and don’t want negative verdict from him.. and that previous astrologer scared us and atp i’m anxious because i haven’t heard from him since last 5 hours.. badly missing him and stressed… how to even handle this.. we both love each other 🙁
ps- i have checked on multiple sites for opinion.. everything was positive there as well

So I matched with a guy on Hinge we used to meet once in a week.. I liked him.. he started being touchy..persuaded me to make out after 10 days of meeting.. always tried to do this whenever we met.. had sex with him twice.. and this happened in span of 3 months.. and i asked him what are we he said friends.. i really got confused because he used to talk about feelings and stuff.. one day I found out he hides story from me.. then i found out he talks with this girl a lot.. i confronted.. he had no answer and just laughed it off i got angry and stopped talking.. a few months later he asked if i wanna meet and do physical stuff like old times.. fast forward to this day I found out that he has married the same girl i saw on his phone.. which makes me think that he was with her when he used to meet me .. and i have the screenshots where he asked to meet.. should i just ignore this and let them live or send it to her??
I wanna do it but im scared what if he controls her social media accounts or what if he tries to harm me