Boyfriend’s friends are making me uncomfortable and don’t respect my boundaries
My boyfriend’s friends have been behaving in a way that feels really invasive and sexual toward me for months, and I’m trying to understand if this is harassment or something I’m right to be concerned about.
They constantly talk about me in their group chat (I’ve seen my name repeatedly), and in person they’ve followed us when we’re alone and have even peeked into the car. They also make sexual comments about me and have asked extremely personal sexual questions about my body (like what color my privates are).
I’ve directly told them multiple times that I’m uncomfortable and don’t like it, but they don’t stop or take it seriously. I’ve also told my boyfriend, but he doesn’t intervene—he either ignores it or laughs it off because he doesn’t want conflict with them.
I’m not sure if I’m overreacting, but this has been ongoing and it’s making me feel really uncomfortable and disrespected. I want to know if this crosses into harassment and what I should realistically do about it.