AITA for feeling uncomfortable that my boyfriend (22M) is intimate with my best friend’s (23F) partner (22M)
Hi reddit! I (22F) have been with my boyfriend (22M) for two years now. We have great communication, similar hobbies, and, apart from this concern, I have yet to doubt the strength of our relationship. Lately, however, I have caught my boyfriend in compromising physical positions with my best friend’s boyfriend, who is also my boyfriend’s best friend. I have caught them straddling on beds, stroking each other intimately, and practically doing everything besides the deed. Now, I am all for the LGBTQ+ community, and am trying my hardest to be a supportive ally (🏳️🌈), but I am personally struggling to come to terms with my boyfriend’s intimate relationship with not only another man, but my best friend’s man. Am I being unreasonable in my concerns? How do I confront this? Do I bring this up to my best friend first?