u/Admirable_Cut_7761

I seriously don’t understand what this means. Am I just being dumb and easily manipulated, or what? (We are not in a relationship)

As a woman, I’ve always wondered what my life would be like if I ever got married, i have my parents, and they’re getting older. at the same time, my siblings don’t really help with anything, especially when it comes to house chores, i do almost everything by myself.

I often think that if I get married, I won’t be able to take care of my parents the way I want to, even if I try to do both, I’ll probably burn out and collapse from being exhausted all the time, especially since I’m working as well.

Because of this, I’ve almost given up on the idea of marriage altogether,does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this situation?

I always get this disgusting feeling after talking to a man, especially when we've had a good conversation. It happens every time, and I can't control it. The better the conversation goes, the stronger the feeling seems to become.

The same thing happens in friendships, especially with women, when a friendship starts becoming closer and more meaningful, I begin to feel uncomfortable، It's not because I don't like the person or because I don't want closeness. In fact, I love being close to people.

What confuses me is that when someone starts relying on me, i struggle to understand it If I can't understand why someone likes me or wants me around.

Please don't describe this as being avoidant or attach labels to it. i don't think the problem is that I dislike closeness. i actually want it. i just have a hard time understanding it, and that uncertainty makes me anxious enough to pull away.

I want to ask if salaries in Algiers are different from other cities for the same job in the same company but one in "direction générale" and the other in just "agence" in any other cities