u/Admirable_Poetry128

So a few weeks ago I made a honey jar for me and the guy I’ve been seeing. It’s a very intense relationship, so on the petition I wrote things like “may our union be full of peace” “may we be committed to only each other” “may our communication be always flowing with ease” A few other things. I wasn’t really worried about third parties or him being interested in someone else until this today. I feel at peace and I know our connection is very special. (Even our synastry/composite point to a spiritual union that is committed, lots of Saturn and harmonious Venus aspects) Venus conjuncts almost everything in our composite.

We haven’t made anything official, but I know it’s something that is growing. However we hung out last week for the first time in months and I haven’t heard from him since, I also haven’t reached out to him because in the past we tired and I would text him with no response for a long time after, sometimes never. So on this new moon in Taurus I remade the honey jar with clearer intentions/just a sweeter/calmer vibe to it. We are both Libra risings and have 8th houses in Taurus so I figured what a great full moon to make this jar for deeper commitment, deeper emotional intimacy, ect. However I posted a story yesterday and he didn’t look at it. It felt intentional because he is always active and I can see that he is. He’s never not watched a story of mine.. so it just made me wonder if the honey jar pushed him farther away? Any insight? I know I added a lot but this is how I think, I combined all of my practices.

So last Friday, Venus day, I did two honey jars. One for myself and one for my relationship. I just put my name and birthday in mine with intentions to just sweeten everything in my world having to do with me. And for the relationship one, I did the same, his full name, birth date, and mine as well. But I keep seeing people say you need to write what you want from the jar around the edge of your petition in a circle.. I only wrote our names overlapping, and our birthdays doing the same, of course I added some hearts, herbs, oils, cinnamon and honey. However I didn’t write anything specific, like “we live together” “we are married”

Our relationship is new and I was hoping to just keep it sweet and make it even sweeter! To make our interactions even more romantic and full of love.

Will it still work? Or should I redo it this Friday with actual intentions wrote on the paper too?