hey ladies, i was hoping to get some advice.
so i (19f) have really been wanting to have sex with my boyfriend (20m) recently but i’ve noticed that my vagina is really tight, like it hurts if i insert two fingers and it almost feels like i’m stretching an elastic band (if that makes any sense).
we tried a few times to have sex but his dick just wouldn’t go in. i was very aroused and wet the last time we tried, and we also put lube over his condom but it didn’t really do anything.
is there any way i can loosen the hole myself so it’ll be able to go in? for reference when i’m masturbating i always focus on clit stimulation, i don’t finger myself often or ever put anything up there.
i’m also writing this to ask if this is normal or something i should check out with a doctor. thanks so much in advance!