AIO to how my fiancé responded to a situation this morning?
A bit of backstory. My(f27$ mom (f45) has very bad anxiety. She’s very prone to getting sick. I mean violently vomiting and diarrhea. When this happens she has panic/ anxiety attacks really bad. She is medicated for it but she can’t keep it down when she’s sick. The attacks cause her to cry,rock,and call out for her mom. She apologizes a lot and it’s whole mess. My kids (11f and 13m) get worried and very stressed when she’s like that. I called and asked my fiancé (m30) to put on some underwear/pants so the kids can come in our room until I get her out the house and to the hospital. He sleeps in the nude sometimes. He got annoyed and huffed that “the kids will be alright. “ after he complained earlier that he doesn’t want them hearing that. I hung up on him because it honestly hurt my feelings. Here I am trying to help my mom calm down so I can get her tone hospital and he’s too lazy to put on pants so our kids can hang in the room a bit. (Maybe 20 mins max) All said and done as I am getting ready to meet her at the hospital because had to call an ambulance. He rolls over and ask me a question. I’m not going to lie I was snippy with him. He asked why and I told him that he hurt my feelings with his actions. He immediately tried to get up and put on pants. That made me angrier because why could he not do that earlier? He apologized and said we can talk about it later. AIO? How should I go about this conversation later?
Edit to add:
The kids are not our bio kids and we both have custody of them. (That’s a long story)
We have been together for 10 years and we both get along with each other’s families.