| (fem 23) only came out to myselt very recently. No one knows except for my best friend. So I don't know if girls are bi/les or not and how to approach them.
There's this close friend of mine, Aria, that I have a huge crush on. Like I figured out that I was bi because I'm so into her and I always wanna hang out alone with her and I fantasize about getting together. But she doesn't know, obviously. She thinks I'm straight!
Here's a little about Aria (my friend and crush): We became friends through a friend in common, Paola. Her and Paola eventually drifted apart and her and I got closer. She invites me to do stuff with her all the time and even invites me over to dinner at her place and cooks for us (I love this and one day another friend invited herself to our dinner and I was sooo annoyed). We talk about boys but obviously never about girls. But Idk if I'm delusional but sometimes I think that Aria could potentially be interested in me too.
But she's not into girls, at least, she never told me.
A few months ago I had dinner with Paola and she refreshed my memory and told me that her and Aria used to make out for fun, mostly when drunk. Given they were 15 at the time, and we were all trying to be wild, I always thought of this as just them being "wild" but never as like oh Aria could be interested in women. What do you think?
Anyways, I don't know if Aria is interested / into women or not, and making a move could
ruin our friendship
out me
I'm terrified of coming out in my hometown so I really have to be careful with this. I'm als scared of telling her I'm bi, her realizing that I'm into her, and her starting to avoid me. So I really don't know what to do.
Not just Aria, but women in general I don't know anything